Challenge:
Our client, a Chief Financial Officer in financial services, was highly competent but dominated meetings with stories of his success, describing a “perfect life” and seeking constant affirmation. His need to be the center of attention impacted team dynamics, yet he remained blind to how his self-centered behavior drained morale. Additionally, he was conflict-avoidant, which led him to sidestep difficult conversations, creating bottlenecks in decision-making. Leadership saw his lack of self-awareness and aversion to conflict as obstacles to team cohesion and suggested executive coaching to help him develop greater empathy and assertiveness.
Our Approach:
We started with feedback sessions and assessments to reveal the gap between the client’s self-perception and how others experienced him. Through structured coaching, we worked on his active listening skills and introduced him to strategies for giving space to others in discussions. We also focused on building his capacity to face conflict directly. Using role-playing exercises, we guided him in handling challenging conversations constructively, helping him see that engaging in conflict could lead to stronger relationships and better outcomes. Over time, he learned to balance his need for affirmation with a genuine interest in other’s perspectives and to see conflict as a necessary part of leadership.
Outcomes:
The client’s increased self-awareness and willingness to engage in difficult conversations transformed his approach. He reduced his self-promotion, allowing others to contribute more actively, and he became more comfortable addressing conflicts head-on. His team noticed and appreciated his shift, commenting on his leadership style’s newfound openness and balance. Reflecting on his progress, he shared, “This coaching experience taught me that real influence isn’t about always being right or avoiding conflict—it’s about truly engaging with others and valuing their voices.”
Industry:
Financial Services